最近繼續觀看“非誠勿擾”這節目。
這種在眾人眼前尋找對象的配對方式，我還真的沒能完全接受。
當然，節目我還是繼續欣賞。
在這節目，我能看見很多跟愛情婚姻有關的事物，也學習很多待人處事的道理。
受益良多。
還有，不是每個女人都只看帥哥。
但醜的，大多數都會被拒絕。
不是每個條件好的男生都能夠帶走一位女生。
但沒有好條件的男生，都會被滅燈。
咳，難。
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Monday, March 05, 2012
Saturday, November 13, 2010
婚禮與祝福
每一次出席婚禮時。來賓們除了碰碰杯，相互寒暄幾句之外，有些事情其實我們或許忽略了……
拍照留念：不要以為新人沒有找你拍照就是不在乎你，其實婚禮與婚宴當天，新郎和新娘都處於忙碌的狀態，再加上當天心情總是特別緊張，因此總會忘東忘西，對此，建議所有受邀的賓客，不妨主動找一對新人拍照留念，你們的出席是給予一對新人最好的祝福，因此請主動上前拍照，好讓日後當這對夫婦翻閱照片時，相簿裡還留有你的倩影！
說實在的，親自籌備一場婚禮的過程並不簡單，願有情人終成眷屬！-Ellie-
Editor's Note, Sep'10 - Feb '11 Bridal Trend
Friday, October 15, 2010
Dangerous Pathment
Ganasnya!!
Don't know which underbred homosapien langgar this sign board.
The building looks familiar? Yes, you are right. It is Monash University.
Don't know which underbred homosapien langgar this sign board.
The building looks familiar? Yes, you are right. It is Monash University.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
【康永·給殘酷社會的善意短信】
看到別人做不好時，也許會暗爽在心，得到一種“我比他聰明”的優越感。但真正聰明的人，是觀察別人為什麼做不好，然後警剔自己，儘量不要犯相同的錯。那些只愛發出噓聲的人，應該是打算一直在台下當觀眾，而那些警剔自己的人，則是在準備，有一天要站上舞台。——《康永，給殘酷社會的善意短信》
把下一件要做的「具体」的事，写在卡片上，贴在手机上，督促自己。例如要练英文，空想是沒用的，卡片写上：“看美剧的碟,第一遍一定用英文字幕来看” ，这才叫『具体』才会有进展。卡片贴手机上，入眼就是提醒，直到真的做到了，卡片再换其他内容，这样你的计划，才会一步一步完成。
——《康永，给残酷社会的善意短信》
Sunday, September 05, 2010
Revenge
A wife is scrambling eggs when her husband bursts into the kitchen.
"Careful," he cries.
"Careful! You're cooking too many at once.
Too many! Scramble them! Now! We need more butter.
They're going to stick! Careful! Now scramble them again!
Hurry up! Are you crazy? Don't forget to salt them.
You know you always forget to salt them. Use the salt! Use the salt! The salt!"
The wife turns and asks, "What is wrong with you?"
Her husband calmly replies, "I wanted to show you what it feels like when I'm driving."
planetproctor.com
Reader's Digest, September issue.
Friday, August 27, 2010
【康永·給殘酷社會的善意短信】
“每做一事，最好只追求一個最在乎的目標，其餘都可以讓步，這樣達成目標的機會才高。比方：做這事，最在乎是學經驗，那就别計較錢；做那事，最要緊是錢，那就别計較面子。以此類推。若做一事，又想學經驗，又要賺得多，又要有面子…… 如此美事，有得等啊。”
正認真地學習歌詞。Photo by Jun.
正認真地學習歌詞。Photo by Jun.
Monday, June 07, 2010
帮助他人
在政府医院工作环境别于私人医院，
（一）热
（二）乱
（三）吵
（四）脏
（五）臭
难道真的只有坏处？那当然不是咯～
在政府医院的病人们都非常守望相助的，让我感到惊讶。
......................................................................
有个病人，他restless。因为这样他必须被restrain，双手都被绑在床架上，怕他乱伤害自己。
他是under我管的区域，但真的因为太忙，病人有多，时间分配得非常差。
午饭时间，他都没吃，因为手都被绑着了。
但我已经能够抽出时间看看他，很奇怪～食物没了一大半。
哦，原来隔壁的安娣喂他吃了一些食物。
那就换我来喂他吃咯……喂前……
安娣：“护士，你不要给他饭哦。他不吃的。他要水果罢了。”
我：“哦，谢谢你！”
哈哈，还清楚地交代我该做什么，不该做什么。感动！
.......................................................................
同一个病人，才知道他是从街边捡回来的病人。
难怪他的documents都没有名字，Name的column只写着“Unknown”。
眼看，他躺在满床排泄物，我也不小心碰到了。
真不知道，他的尿片没换不少天了。
赶紧去洗手，然后准备干净的床单和病人制服为他替换。
问他：“安阁，你有尿片吗？”（明知道答案，可是就要问一下）
安阁：“没有。”
再问：“那你有钱吗？我帮你买尿片。”
安阁：“我哪里来的钱？”
怎么办？我又不可以自己出钱，就问问那边的注册护士她们的解决方法。
原来她们是问其他病人能不能捐的。哇，我太惊讶了！
当然，问题最后有解决了。用了什么方法呢？
哈哈，我还真的是去跟别人要。
我不曾做过如此的事情。
我aim好了病人，就干脆地下手。
我不好意思开口：“你们可以不可以帮忙？有一位病人他没有钱，但需要尿片，可以捐出一个吗？”
其他病人的亲戚立即道：“哦，当然可以，我们也是被人帮助过的。不要客气！”
他又微笑地接着：“他要两个吗？”
非常非常感动。
（一）热
（二）乱
（三）吵
（四）脏
（五）臭
难道真的只有坏处？那当然不是咯～
在政府医院的病人们都非常守望相助的，让我感到惊讶。
......................................................................
有个病人，他restless。因为这样他必须被restrain，双手都被绑在床架上，怕他乱伤害自己。
他是under我管的区域，但真的因为太忙，病人有多，时间分配得非常差。
午饭时间，他都没吃，因为手都被绑着了。
但我已经能够抽出时间看看他，很奇怪～食物没了一大半。
哦，原来隔壁的安娣喂他吃了一些食物。
那就换我来喂他吃咯……喂前……
安娣：“护士，你不要给他饭哦。他不吃的。他要水果罢了。”
我：“哦，谢谢你！”
哈哈，还清楚地交代我该做什么，不该做什么。感动！
.......................................................................
同一个病人，才知道他是从街边捡回来的病人。
难怪他的documents都没有名字，Name的column只写着“Unknown”。
眼看，他躺在满床排泄物，我也不小心碰到了。
真不知道，他的尿片没换不少天了。
赶紧去洗手，然后准备干净的床单和病人制服为他替换。
问他：“安阁，你有尿片吗？”（明知道答案，可是就要问一下）
安阁：“没有。”
再问：“那你有钱吗？我帮你买尿片。”
安阁：“我哪里来的钱？”
怎么办？我又不可以自己出钱，就问问那边的注册护士她们的解决方法。
原来她们是问其他病人能不能捐的。哇，我太惊讶了！
当然，问题最后有解决了。用了什么方法呢？
哈哈，我还真的是去跟别人要。
我不曾做过如此的事情。
我aim好了病人，就干脆地下手。
我不好意思开口：“你们可以不可以帮忙？有一位病人他没有钱，但需要尿片，可以捐出一个吗？”
其他病人的亲戚立即道：“哦，当然可以，我们也是被人帮助过的。不要客气！”
他又微笑地接着：“他要两个吗？”
非常非常感动。
Monday, May 17, 2010
I'LL NEVER GROW UP
Robbie, my nine-year-old grandson, recently asked his mother about puberty. She explained that it occurs when children's bodies begin to change. "Boys," she said, "grow taller and develop muscles. Their voices deepen, and they start to grow hair, like facial hair." She paused. "Do you understand?"
"Yes," he replied. "I just hope it happens on a Saturday, when I'm not in school."
Michael Stephenson
pg. 104, Reader's Digest April 2010
"Yes," he replied. "I just hope it happens on a Saturday, when I'm not in school."
Michael Stephenson
pg. 104, Reader's Digest April 2010
Saturday, May 15, 2010
DATO' SRI TONY FERNANDES
When the company was still relatively small, Fernandes used to try his hand working in the different departments. He was a bag carrier, check in officer and even flight attendant for a day. It allowed him to get on the ground and see real problems and needs. It also gave him the chance to spot potential stars in the company. When he learned that some bag carries dreamt of becoming pilots, he sponsored their training. He's proud of the facts that "18 months later they are flying planes." AirAsia also boasts of having 35 female pilots in their staff. "If women can run a country, they can certainly fly a plane!" he exclaims.
Fernandes ends his well-applauded speech by encouraging the summit delegates with his credo: "Believe the unbelievable. Dream the impossible. Never take 'No' for an answer!"
pg. 40 - 41, Reader's Digest April 2010
Apa itu TRUST?
WHAT IS TRUST?
Consultant Psychologist Paul Jambunathan says:" In psychology, trust is a very complex behaviour where we allow ourselves to be subjected to another. It's something we call mutuality when people realise that they are interdependent. Trust needs to run both ways to exist. If only one party trusts, the other can manipulate the trusting party. The higher the trust factor between people, the more efficient and solid the relationship."
Reader's Digest March 2010
Consultant Psychologist Paul Jambunathan says:" In psychology, trust is a very complex behaviour where we allow ourselves to be subjected to another. It's something we call mutuality when people realise that they are interdependent. Trust needs to run both ways to exist. If only one party trusts, the other can manipulate the trusting party. The higher the trust factor between people, the more efficient and solid the relationship."
Reader's Digest March 2010
Friday, May 14, 2010
The 10 Most Trusted Professions
As expected, the most trusted professions were mostly science and medicine oriented. One interesting finding is that CEOs, at number 27, have lower rankings than musicians (#21), tour guides (#23) and stewardessess (#26). Perhaps it's time for corporate leaders to sit up and listen?
Reader's Digest, March 2010
*I am proud to be one of the most trusted.*
- Pilot
- Teacher
- Doctor
- Paramedic
- Firefighter
- Surgeon
- Scientist
- Dentist
- Pharmacist
- Nurse
Reader's Digest, March 2010
*I am proud to be one of the most trusted.*
Tuesday, May 04, 2010
Kids' perceptions - LOVE
Here's how kids see love in action:
pg. 149, Reader's Digest April 2010
- Love is when my mummy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK. Danny, 7
- Love is when Mummy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says that he is handsomer than Robert Redfort. Chris, 7
- Love is when Mummy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken. Elaine, 5
- Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk some more. Emily, 8
pg. 149, Reader's Digest April 2010
Sunday, May 02, 2010
Praise Therapy
After suffering a brain aneurysm, I spent a month in hospital recovering, then a further month in a rehabilitation hospital to have daily therapy.
Each day involved attending and participating in three or four sessions. Always fatigued and often suffering from headaches, I lived for nights when I could go to bed and stay there.
Given that I was unable to find the therapy rooms on my own - or even tell the time - my therapy was an ongoing trial. I often wondered if I would ever competent enough to go home and lead a normal life.
One evening, a nurse called in to see me before she went off duty. "I just wanted to let you know how well you're doing. It was important to tell you that," she said.
Her encouraging words overwhelmed me. After her comment, I knew I was winning the battle. I'm sure she would never know how much impact her gesture had.
Cherie Lawton
Each day involved attending and participating in three or four sessions. Always fatigued and often suffering from headaches, I lived for nights when I could go to bed and stay there.
Given that I was unable to find the therapy rooms on my own - or even tell the time - my therapy was an ongoing trial. I often wondered if I would ever competent enough to go home and lead a normal life.
One evening, a nurse called in to see me before she went off duty. "I just wanted to let you know how well you're doing. It was important to tell you that," she said.
Her encouraging words overwhelmed me. After her comment, I knew I was winning the battle. I'm sure she would never know how much impact her gesture had.
Cherie Lawton
HealthSmart +
Fix It With Food:
Knee Pain
Millions of people have stiff, painful knees thanks to osteoarthritis. Remedies range from keeping active and dropping excess weight to steroid injections and even surgery. But research shows that you can take a tastier route to improvement:
SOY People with knee pain reported less discomfort and used fewer pain meds after eating soy protein daily for three months, according to Oklahoma State University research. Soy is rich in isoflavones, plant hormones with anti-inflammatory properties. Study participants consumed a powdered soy drink mix that contains 40 grams of protein, but, says study author Bahram H. Arjmandi, PhD, you can get the same benefit from sources like flavoured soy milk, edamame (baby soybeans), and soy burgers.
CITRUS In a study of 293 Australian adults, eating plenty of fruit reduced the risk of developing bone marrow lesions - a marker for worsening knee osteoarthritis and pain.
The knee-friendliest fruits appear to be vitamin C-packed ones, like kiwi, orange, mango, grapefruit, and papaya. The researchers suspect it's the vitamin C in fruit that protects the knee joint and supporting structures.
FISH Many studies have found that fish and fish oil ease the joint pain and stiffness of rheumatoid arthritis. Now a study shows that the omega-3 fatty acids found in fish may block not only the chemicals that cause inflammation in osteoarthritis but also the proteins known to wear down knee cartilage. Eat two servings of oily fish (such as mackerel or salmon) weekly or take one gram of omega-3s in capsule form every day, says nutrition researcher Dr Artemis P. Simopoulos.
Knee Pain
Millions of people have stiff, painful knees thanks to osteoarthritis. Remedies range from keeping active and dropping excess weight to steroid injections and even surgery. But research shows that you can take a tastier route to improvement:
SOY People with knee pain reported less discomfort and used fewer pain meds after eating soy protein daily for three months, according to Oklahoma State University research. Soy is rich in isoflavones, plant hormones with anti-inflammatory properties. Study participants consumed a powdered soy drink mix that contains 40 grams of protein, but, says study author Bahram H. Arjmandi, PhD, you can get the same benefit from sources like flavoured soy milk, edamame (baby soybeans), and soy burgers.
CITRUS In a study of 293 Australian adults, eating plenty of fruit reduced the risk of developing bone marrow lesions - a marker for worsening knee osteoarthritis and pain.
The knee-friendliest fruits appear to be vitamin C-packed ones, like kiwi, orange, mango, grapefruit, and papaya. The researchers suspect it's the vitamin C in fruit that protects the knee joint and supporting structures.
FISH Many studies have found that fish and fish oil ease the joint pain and stiffness of rheumatoid arthritis. Now a study shows that the omega-3 fatty acids found in fish may block not only the chemicals that cause inflammation in osteoarthritis but also the proteins known to wear down knee cartilage. Eat two servings of oily fish (such as mackerel or salmon) weekly or take one gram of omega-3s in capsule form every day, says nutrition researcher Dr Artemis P. Simopoulos.
@ Work
Scott Adams, creator of the Dilbert comic strip, asked visitors to his website to describe their job in one sentence. Here are some of our favourite responses:
My job is to...
> Enjoy that stupid people stay in the gene pool. -Lifeguard-
> Spend most of the day looking out the window. - Pilot-
> Bring a little rain into the lives of flood victims. - Government Dept Collector-
> Run away and call the police. - Security Guard-
> Copy and paste things on the internet. - Student-
> Talk in other people's sleep. - University Professor-
Reader's Digest, April 2010
Friday, February 12, 2010
Happy Chinese New Year~!
I've been waiting for this enjoyable festive since last year end, right after the Xmas celebration.
I was looking forward the moment when I can greet everybody "恭喜發財Gong Hei Fat Choi".
I love red 燈籠Tunglung, I love red dresses, I love red nail polish, I love red hair accessories, I love red lion, I love red flowers, I love 紅包Angpao, and I love to celebrate Chinese New Year with all my friends and family.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Legion
What a nice movie to watch during the quiescent night, left only the frightening sound effects.
I was in a tachypnoea and a tachycardia mode throughout the movie.
Legion~!
I rate it as 7/10
Michael, played by Paul Bettany, a man with a virile voice and chest.
Michael, a ministering angel. Surrendered his position as servant of God and helped the homosapiens to have consistent faith in God.
I like the scene of Charlie's labour. The way Michael talks to the pain-till-death mother and holds her as she is his leman.
Gladys, the kind looking yet consume human flesh monster grandma.
This is best described as "A semblance of angel but a heart of a devil".
She climbed like tarantula, bit like lamniformes.
The ice-cream man.
The second main possessed human with extensive mandible and limbs.
He was deadly shot too early, I aspect something spooky.
Another scene I like is when Kyle spoofed by an angel masquerading child.
When the fake angelic child humming the melody of 'ne-ni ne-ni boo boo, you cannot catch me', wow, trap! This is a trap, Kyle!
Watch it.
I was in a tachypnoea and a tachycardia mode throughout the movie.
Legion~!
I rate it as 7/10
Michael, played by Paul Bettany, a man with a virile voice and chest.
Michael, a ministering angel. Surrendered his position as servant of God and helped the homosapiens to have consistent faith in God.
I like the scene of Charlie's labour. The way Michael talks to the pain-till-death mother and holds her as she is his leman.
Gladys, the kind looking yet consume human flesh monster grandma.
This is best described as "A semblance of angel but a heart of a devil".
She climbed like tarantula, bit like lamniformes.
The ice-cream man.
The second main possessed human with extensive mandible and limbs.
He was deadly shot too early, I aspect something spooky.
Another scene I like is when Kyle spoofed by an angel masquerading child.
When the fake angelic child humming the melody of 'ne-ni ne-ni boo boo, you cannot catch me', wow, trap! This is a trap, Kyle!
Watch it.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Autism
A neurological disorder featuring delayed or abnormal development in 3 areas:
- Language
- Social skills
- Behaviour repertoire
...........................................................................
Language Development
- Difficulty understanding of language.
*touch apple
*find the red apple
*go to the kitchen
- Difficulty expressing through words.
Social Skills
- Imitation
- Sharing
- Play skills
- Smiling ( Difficulty understanding emotion and facial expression)
- Interacting with people
- Conversation
- Manners
- Eye contact ( Dialogue without eye contact)
- Waiting ( Less patience)
- Greeting ( Does not understand purpose of greeting)
- Proximity ( Acting inappropriately)
- Joining play
- Responding to others ( Does not answer questions)
Behavioural Repertoire
- Hand flapping
- Peripheral eye gazing
- Pacing ( Not standing still while talking)
- Finger flicking
- Spinning around
- Lining up toys in a non-functional manner
- Repeating words or lines from movie
- Rewinding videos repeatedly
NB: not all autistic child will show all of the symptoms above.
Autism is not:
- Mental illness
- Caused by parenting style
- Something that the child will "grow out of"
- Cured by medication or medical procedure
Child with Autism Spetrum Disorder
- has capacity to learn cognitive skills
- limited or no speech
- have language but limited communicative speech
- echolalic speech
- delayed development of gross motor
* sit without assistance
* kick a ball
* ride a tricycle
* move backward and foreward
- delayed development of fine motor
* ( usually action using fingers: writing, pokes with index finger)
- difficulty performing activities daily living
- difficulty read reaction of others and adapt their behaviour.
Tips for Working with Children with Autism
- Being consistent
* rules, expectation, where thing are kept
- Using simple language
* one instruction at a time
* use visuals to support language
* avoid idioms or metaphors
- Giving predictability
* explain changes before they happen
- Giving attention for appropriate behaviour
- Keeping child active in classroom
* give child job, ensure on task, ensure attention
- Encouraging social interactions to work on these skills
* conversation at appropriate time
* make a play plan before going to the playground
Reference:
Jochebed Isaacs, "Autism Awareness", Early Autism Project Malaysia, pg. 1 - 9, 13 November 2009
- Language
- Social skills
- Behaviour repertoire
...........................................................................
Language Development
- Difficulty understanding of language.
*touch apple
*find the red apple
*go to the kitchen
- Difficulty expressing through words.
Social Skills
- Imitation
- Sharing
- Play skills
- Smiling ( Difficulty understanding emotion and facial expression)
- Interacting with people
- Conversation
- Manners
- Eye contact ( Dialogue without eye contact)
- Waiting ( Less patience)
- Greeting ( Does not understand purpose of greeting)
- Proximity ( Acting inappropriately)
- Joining play
- Responding to others ( Does not answer questions)
Behavioural Repertoire
- Hand flapping
- Peripheral eye gazing
- Pacing ( Not standing still while talking)
- Finger flicking
- Spinning around
- Lining up toys in a non-functional manner
- Repeating words or lines from movie
- Rewinding videos repeatedly
NB: not all autistic child will show all of the symptoms above.
Autism is not:
- Mental illness
- Caused by parenting style
- Something that the child will "grow out of"
- Cured by medication or medical procedure
Child with Autism Spetrum Disorder
- has capacity to learn cognitive skills
- limited or no speech
- have language but limited communicative speech
- echolalic speech
- delayed development of gross motor
* sit without assistance
* kick a ball
* ride a tricycle
* move backward and foreward
- delayed development of fine motor
* ( usually action using fingers: writing, pokes with index finger)
- difficulty performing activities daily living
- difficulty read reaction of others and adapt their behaviour.
Tips for Working with Children with Autism
- Being consistent
* rules, expectation, where thing are kept
- Using simple language
* one instruction at a time
* use visuals to support language
* avoid idioms or metaphors
- Giving predictability
* explain changes before they happen
- Giving attention for appropriate behaviour
- Keeping child active in classroom
* give child job, ensure on task, ensure attention
- Encouraging social interactions to work on these skills
* conversation at appropriate time
* make a play plan before going to the playground
Reference:
Jochebed Isaacs, "Autism Awareness", Early Autism Project Malaysia, pg. 1 - 9, 13 November 2009
Monday, October 26, 2009
《當我老了》
《當我老了》—— 寫給孩子的一封信
當我老了，不再是原來的我。
請理解我，對我有一點耐心。
當我把菜湯灑到自己的衣服時，
當我忘記怎樣系鞋帶時，
請想一想當初我是如何手把手地教你。
當我一遍又一遍地重復你早已聽膩的話語，
請耐心地聽我說，不要打斷我。
你從小的時候，我不得不重復那個講過千百遍的故事，
直到你進入夢鄉。
當我需要你幫我洗澡時，請不要責備我。
還記得小時候我千方百計哄你洗澡的情形嗎？
當我對新科技和新事物不知所措時，
請不要嘲笑我。
想一想當初我怎樣耐心地回答你的每一個“為什么”。
當我由于雙腳疲勞而無法行走時，
請伸出你年輕有力的手攙扶我。
就像你小時候學習走路時，我扶你那樣。
當我忽然忘記我們談話的主題，
請給我一些時間讓我回想。
其實對我來說，談論什么并不重要，
只要你能在一旁聽我說，我就很滿足。
當你看著老去的我，請不要悲傷。
理解我，支持我，
就像你剛開始學習如何生活時我對你那樣。
當初我引導你走上人生的路，
如今請陪我走完最后的路。
給我你的愛和耐心，我會報以感激的微笑。
這微笑中凝結著我對你無限的愛。
文章擇選自墨西哥《數字家庭》- 2004年 11月
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